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Perfection Is Not Required





  Perfection, what is it? what's is perfect to one person is not to another. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Why do we strive so hard to be perfect, I always used to think it was a women's disease, but I think that men are starting to feel the same way, how can anyone be perfect! Why  can't we  strive to do our best but perfection comes at a higher price, there are those that spend their cold hard cash on surgeries to acquire it, but do they succeed, you have to feel it, but as human being's we always want more and more it will never be enough why are we like that why can't we be happy with what we have, why do we want more?
  When I grew up we had magazines, with images that we tried so badly to emulate, with our 50 pence lipsticks from the indoor market a make that no one had ever heard of. Now with the internet and social media platforms, and the selfie culture, we are so more conscious of what we look like. We look at the airbrushed image's and think I could never look like that, everyday we are bombarded with images of how our lives should be, we should look like this we should dress like that, our homes and family should be in order and polished clean and shiny  what would others think on the outside, who fucking cares, no one is perfect, they never have been and they never will be, so live your life, be happy and contented with who you are stop the worrying about what other's will think of you it's a waste of time, wake up open your eye's and simply say Perfection is not required. 💖
 


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  1. The quest for perfection can be such a dangerous one! Look at the rate of eating disorders, depression, anxiety and other such disorders in our society today. This is a clear reflection on the unattainable idea of 'perfection' that our society tries to sell us.

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  2. Your so right it's very worrying X

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  3. Good read! This is so motivating. Thanks for sharing ♥️ ♥️ Let me know if you are interested in doing collabs! xx

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    1. Thank you, let me know what you have in mind for the collab, you didn't leave any details.X

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  4. You are right.
    Everyone whats perfection now a days but people forget that perfections cost us.
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